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The Power Of Body Language
Why body language is so important in an interview?
Did you know that non-verbal communication speaks louder than words? Posture,
expression, and eye contact can convey more messages than plain verbal
communication. Understanding body language will help you improve your
performance in an interview. Research has shown that less than 10% of what we
are trying to communicate comes through words, 30% comes through in our tone of
voice, and 60% through our posture and eye contact.
Make eye contact
Eye contact is vital in an interview. It determines your level of interest and
speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. Shy people avoid eye contact.
Employers will presume that such people may not be able to fulfill certain
duties and important functions in the organization. A person lying about
himself will also tend to look away, creating a feeling of mistrust. To come
through as an honest and confident person you need to look the interviewer
straight in the eye in order to develop a feeling of trust.
Look and sound interested
An active listener will sound interested, nod, smile, cock his head, and
maintain a reasonable degree of eye contact. Inappropriate body posture can
often be annoying and can trigger the wrong note. A person sitting slumped in
his chair shows a lack of interest in what the interviewer is saying; on the
other hand, someone sitting with his legs crossed will be conveying arrogance.
Sitting in an upright position with a slight forward inclination is an ideal
position for a candidate attending an interview.
Smile your way through
Understanding your body language will make you feel more relaxed and confident
in an interview. Smiling has always worked wonders, but overdoses of it may
create discomfort. Mastering the art of smiling at appropriate places is very
important and comes through practice. Employers love cheerful workers; it makes
the organization function smoothly and effectively.
Sell yourself with confidence
At an interview you sell yourself through communication. Be honest and direct
in your communication, avoid too many hand gestures, don’t rub your nose and
eyes, and make your conversation brief. When asked tricky questions about why
you left your previous organization, or when asked how you would handle a
crisis, be clear in your communication. Avoid stammering or offering lengthy
explanations. The interviewer will get the feeling that you are lying about
something. Such questions arise in all interviews, so make sure to prepare your
answers in advance. Inventing stories on the spur of the moment will tend to
lower your confidence level. Finally, irrespective of the outcome of the
interview, remember to shake hands with the interviewer, smile, and thank him
for his time.
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